Saturday, August 23, 2014

August 23, 2014

As We Take Our Different Paths

This journey has been wonderful and short with a little butterflies and anxieties started off with the unknown or expectations from the instructors and colleagues but the more I went on this journey I found it to be extremely important and successful. My journal could not have been a success without my positive, uplifting, and inputs from the most caring colleagues I have ever encountered. I found these colleagues to share the exact goal, vision, and plan I have for my professional and personal life. They brought as a collectible team new insights, informative information, and engaging knowledge to use in my preschool classroom on a daily basis. Furthermore I can utilize this information in practical ways in my everyday personal life. In addition I hope all my colleagues great success with their specialization as we complete this journey as educators with a new degree within our belt. I may see some of you all on my ending journey with the last two specialist classes but if not success with your endeavor and journey throughout your life. I hope I have made adjourning friends forever even though I may never meet any you all in person but I am a facebook or a blog away. Hope we forever keep in touch!

Sunday, August 10, 2014

August 10, 2014

Working within a Group

I have worked with numerous of groups while in undergraduate and the workplace. I found some of them to be productive and unproductive. But the key to any successful teamwork is mutual trust and respect because without it will certain not going to work. Furthermore each team member should be commitment and dedicated to the group, the goal, the vision, and mission of the organization. Before reading the assigned reading for this week I had no idea that trust is the glue for making a team to succeed. I knew we had to have respect and value for each other’s opinion that is part of the group. However now I do understand that mutual trust has to be there for the group work to be done. Without trust one will assume their ideas and thoughts only will work, the person who is responsible for his or her part will complete it, and if not I will do it for the person and this will bring on conflict. Therefore conflict may arise but should not because I don’t trust each team member to complete their part and not a responsible person.

In my opinion I believe high-performing groups are the hardest to leave because they accomplished a project that designated an end date, follower through conflicts, and master the acquired task. Most of hard the team has gain mutual trust, become one, respect each other’s, value others ideas and thoughts, and found a mutual friend forever even if they don’t ever work together again. And most of all they work together as a team to complete a goal. In addition, they have successfully accomplished the five stages of development of a team forming, storming, norming, performing, and adjourning.


I will assume that adjourning from the colleagues of Walden University will be one of the hardest groups I have to depart from because I have met some everlasting friends,  been together from July 2013 until February 2014, I have learned and shared many knowledgably things to use in my professional and personal life. Most important it will be hard because this group of colleagues respect your thoughts, ideas, and input. They don’t demean, belittle, or discredit your way of communicating. I know that I have learned to love them forever and even hope that I will not forget any of them. I do hope we all can meet each other at the commencement exercise and congratulate each other on the accomplishment of receiving our master. Even like to meet all of our professors that had an important part of our success. I know down the years I will remember each one of you even though the adjourning will be sad, tearer eyes, makeup all of the place, joy, laughter, and excitement. I must even say now I recognized from the very beginning of this class I recognized we didn’t have Ann abroad and I emailed her to see what was the problem, also noticed Nikiesha was not responding to any assignments therefore I emailed her. When the group has such a positive impact in your life you will miss that person and have concerns therefore adjourning is tough but inevitable. Actually this group demonstrates respect, mutual trust, commitment, and value to this university, faculty, and colleagues. I will miss everyone that was part of my success. 

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Effective Communication and Conflict

August 2, 2014

This week assignment deals with communicating effective with conflict. Conflict can be productive or unproductive but referrable productive. We as professional educators should always strive to communicate with a calmness and politeless with parents, children, and colleagues at all times regardless what's the situation. Furthermore I have learned how to demonstrate productive communication with conflict by utilizing the techniques Nonviolent Communication(NVC) and the 3Rs by Magda Gebger.

The conflict I am going to share this week is regarding my sister and her immediate supersvior. The conflict was trying to add more workload to my sister which she feels she has extended workload already. My sister feels the supersvior doesn't want to take responsibility as the led DON but desires a workload lite as possible for herself. There conflict is unproductive because the executive director of corporal and the corporal nurse never allow them to discuss the situation with both parties at hand to see how they can what's the conflict all about and reslove the conflict among each other; therefore the conflict never gets resolve. And through the unproductive conflict the problem just brew and brew where it has escalated with outburst and disrespect among the two ladies.

First strategy I think both of them could benefit from is Nonviolent Communication (NVC). By using NVC allows each person involve be considered and compassionated towards each other. This would have allowed no screaming and yelling amongst the executive directors and themselves. They could have spoken with politeness and calmness also respect so the problem could have been resloved. Furthermore it will allow both parties at hand to listen to the other person needs versus their on selfishness needs.

The second strategy I think both of them could benefit from using the 3Rs. By using the 3Rs it will allow every person involve to be considered and compassionated so each one can communicate effectively. Furthermore both of them could learn to listen and communicate with a calmeness and respect. This allows them to build and produce a healthy relationship that would become everlasting.