My Personal Research Journal

March 15, 2014

I have chosen this week's simulation for my subtopic Overcoming shyness and social phobia in early childhood children. As I reflect on my life as a child I chose this topic only because it is dear to my heart because I am that particular child that encountered shyness and social phobia which eventually led me to encounter many disappointing situations and experienced a sad life. Furthermore it led me to have low self-esteem, not to make friends, or just to be sociable, which prevented me from just walking into a room along without been suspicious of other people. This shyness prevented me from pursuing my education, which I eventually dropped out of college and could not accomplished any thing in life I wanted. This shyness and social phobia also makes me the teacher I am today. Unless one has experienced this type of phobia one does not understand or cannot comprehend the barriers that prevent one to do the small things in life.

I find it interesting to set goals for shyness to overcome their social phobia at an early age because if not this will have a negative impact in their adulthood life as well. Positive goals are necessary and they also need the support. But parents and teachers some reason of another believe and think this type of behavior is acceptable and they will eventually overcome this behavior. However one who has lived this type of life knows first hand it does not take another twist or turn around in life unless it is deal with professional.

So this is the reason I find this topic very interesting and intriguing because it is a disease or sickness that needs attention and taken serious to help children cope with this problem or prevent it all together. And it is extremely good to know there are studies and research concerning shyness and social phobia to prevent or cope with this illness.